Man Crush of the Year: Eddie Redmayne
by Nathan Beesley
Despite my pristinely made bedding, zealously strict grooming routine and severely bloated wardrobe, I am actually a happily heterosexual guy with a healthy fondness for all things female. This even extends to, though very rarely, actually entering relations with the fairer sex.
I tend to take a somewhat uncompromising stance with regard to my sexuality (unlike the rest of my family and friends, I never thought I was gay) and this can create difficulties when one is trying to express ones respect for an attractive role model of the male persuasion.
Luckily, the growing number of English colloquial idioms has provided us with the perfect solution, namely the expression ‘man crush’. This expression allows even the most Neanderthal of homophobes to express their affection for anyone from Joey Essex to Boris Johnson, (although if you have a man crush on either of the aforementioned characters, I would seek immediate medical advice).
The New Year seems like an appropriate time to look back and assess which guy has left the deepest impression on me and, as far as I’m concerned, there is only one contender.
I first came across Burberry darling Eddie Redmayne in the television adaptation of Sebastian Falk’s Birdsong, a book which holds the record for bring me to tears at least twice. I was immediately struck by his impeccable attire, which radiated personal style even when he was donning military uniform. Anyone who can look dapper running into a hail of German machine gun fire is sure to be an idol of mine.
I was made more conscious of him by my favourite style publications, including GQ, who featured him on their list of 50-dressed men. It was Redmayne who later influenced me in quiffing my hair, though I’m still working on replicating his tousled, boyish take on the classic style.
Redmayne’s personal style is everything I aspire to. He takes minimalist, versatile pieces of tailoring and mixes these separates to create something truly inspired and refined. There’s always a healthy dose of Sprezzatura, or ‘artful dishevelment’, in everything he does. In a world where men button things up to the extreme, Redmayne takes the opposite approach. Blazer collars are popped, pocket squares are stuffed in, casual henleys and knits are layered effortlessly under sharp, crisp suiting. You just get the sense that Redmayne has just thrown on what he’s wearing, but there’s clearly a strong thought process behind creating this impression.
Jessica Punter, the style and grooming editor for GQ, puts it better than I ever could:
‘Baby-faced charm, artfully dishevelled hair and a killer suit. It’s a really simple formula, but boy, does it work’.
Boy, does it indeed.



Very cool post! Haha! “the most neanderthal of homophobes”… nice, very nice. I enjoy dressing nice, and I also appreciate a well dressed man–if for only the inspiration of my own wardrobe. Real women appreciate a man who looks good on their arm.
Great article. I suddenly feel less embarrassed about declaring my man-love for the oh so suave Andre 3000 now
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I am so glad I stumbled across this! Very well written. Perfect man crush of the year. I first saw him in My Week with Marilyn – good movie. Anyways, I loved this and its refreshing to hear a heterosexual male admire his own sex without thinking his manhood is in question. You sound like a great catch haha
wise choice, definitely worthy of a man crush.
Eddie Redmayne is growing on me. Are you watching Les Mis then to see if he can add the singing feather to his cap?
He is one delicious man I will admit.
Rowr! Very well written.
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My first memory of Eddie was in “the Good Shepard” and since then he has held my attention. I believe him to be an outstanding ‘up and comer’ actor. I only hope the Hollywood talons do not get to him and he remains true to himself.
After 50 years with freckles, I now do believe that freckles are downright sexy.
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The suit is great!
Birdsong is indeed a wonderful book, as is most of Mr Faulks’ work, although I have just finished A Possible Life which I found a bit disappointing.
Yep! Birdsong was amazing and Eddie won me forever. Personally I think it’s the freckles.
Ahh, he is so lovely…
I’d never heard of him before i saw my week with Marilyn. Such a talented beauty… good choice on your man crush
Good to read. Fortunately (for my kids) I still go for the slightly older male myself, but embracing the man crush is a good sign. You can’t really fight this sort of beauty whatever your gender.
Totes agree. He’s a delight.
Agree, saw him on the TV series World without end. Oh my…
He is Reallyy Cute!
XO!
love this. I love him and his style and the tenderness in his acting, and I love the application of the phrase ‘man crush’. respect.
Er…I’d never heard of him before, but I don’t live in England so I’m guessing that’s why. However, I did see Les Mis last week, and did admire his acting talent. Of course it gives me no clue as to whether I would admire his style, but I did find his “do” a bit distracting. Surely he could have forsaken it for the movie? :=)
The first time I saw him was when I went to see Les Mis the other day… let’s just say I immediately fell in love.
Can a 64 year old woman have a “Man Crush”? I’m going to check out Birdsong.
Great actor as well.
I just have a massive regular crush on him. Those cheekbones are to die for!
The Les Miserables actor is apparently color blind and relies on his girlfriend to pick out his clothes. Behind every successful man…. Hahaha!
Have you seen the movie? You will really crush when you see his performance.
Congrats on being Freshly Pressed!
Bleh. On Redmayne. Nice writing though!
Keep your mist off. The Carmichaels have claimed him and Daughter No.1 is choosing the wedding dress as we speak.
Nice to see a UK centric blog on FPed. And on a family favourite to boot.
Of course that was supposed to say mitts (thanks Apple auto-correct).
Don’t you think he pouts just a little too much? When watching Birdsong, I used to think I’d accidentally switched over to TOWIE…..
He is so cute! I was at the theatre in San Diego where the shooting happened on Saturday. I am okay but I hope to brave it up and go to a theatre to watch him and the end of Les Mis.
Before seeing Les Mis yesterday i would have described him as weird looking, freckle faced little boy, but after seeing the film i now at least understand his appeal even if i don’t necessarily feel it myself.
Crushing too.
My daughter and her friend (early 20s) say that he plays a dolt in Les Miserables. It doesn’t help that the character in the book is a dolt, too.
I love himmmm!
I first saw Eddie in My Week with Marilyn. Up against the likes of Michelle Williams but their attraction definitely caught my attention. I was like “who does this young buck think he is”, leaving poor lil Emma Watson on her own. Then I saw Les Miserables the other day, and oh my… Does he play any roles that aren’t hopelessly in love?
Oh ku-ku-kachoo… Mrs. Robinson chiming in here.
Have you seen him in Pillars of the Earth?
I first saw him in Tess of the D’Urbervilles. I thought he played the part well and so I checked what other films he was in. The Yellow Handkerchief (2008) and Birdsong are another two good films. He certainly is talented.
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what utter nonsense. are you even a grown man?
thanks.
No, thankyou for your insightful and witty comment. =)
Love a good man crush!
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He’s cute! I’m glad you’re confident enough in yourself to blog about your man crush.
Well you are certainly not gay. But the fact that you have aptly learned how to express yourself is certainly womanly. Bravo! (Tweeted your article BTW)
His clothes are pretty, yet he is not. So yeah, you’re probably telling the truth, you’re a breeder… Peace.
Never heard of him but I *adore* a man in a well cut suit!
oh my god!! thank you thank you thank you for introducing me to him! gorgeous!
I saw Eddie at a fairly intimate poetry reading last year and it was like he was reading just to me. I’m sure I was just the least dazzling point in the stage lights, but… nah, he was totes staring at me!
I first saw Eddie in “Pillars of the Earth” and was mesmerized by him. Years later, he still has the same effect. I could never put my finger on what exactly was so appealing about him, but your comments on his attire and appearance does the job well. Thanks!